Dancing

I turned on the ceiling fan in my room. Now I’m watching it spin.

I don’t know what to write. I’m crawling along the inside walls of my skull. I’m trying to see if there’s anything worth scraping off.

Each word I push out clears a path for the next one, but I’m not yet hitting the point where words and sentences start tumbling away of their own accord.

Right now these words have no life of their own. They’re only here on my screen through force of will. They don’t seem real enough.

I may be thinking about this too much.

I read Sophie’s World for a class ten years ago. It’s not a great book: it’s an awkwardly-written survey course in philosophy disguised as a novel, and I don’t remember most of what was in there. One disconnected piece has stuck with me, though. There’s a scene where one character tells another a cheesy parable about a couple of bugs:

Once upon a time, there was a caterpillar who was ridiculously good at dancing. She was incredible. When she danced, her dozens of legs all moved as one. She was really graceful and shit. Her dancing was the talk of the insect town.

But a spider was jealous of her skills. He wanted to ruin her. One day he crawled over to her like the asshole creep that he was, and asked her a question.

“How do you dance like that?” he said. “You do some pretty complicated stuff. What are the steps? Could you break everything down and explain it to me?”

The caterpillar hadn’t thought about the way she danced before. Not consciously, anyway. But when, at the spider’s urging, she started trying to figure out exactly what it was she did, she lost it.

She never danced again. Every time she tried, she got hopelessly confused, and her legs went every which way. Her self-consciousness had made her an uncoordinated mess.

I still remember that story because I think it rings true. It’s okay to analyze shit, but I take that a step too far. I analyze shit about myself that’s probably better left untouched.

Exactly

There’s something gratuitous and pornographic about the time applet that sits in the upper-right-hand corner of my screen. It shows me each individual second as it passes, and I don’t need that much information. I don’t need to know about the seconds. Or the minutes, for that matter. Or the hours.

Each hour that goes by is exactly one hour long. I know that intellectually, but my gut tells me otherwise. Somehow I can sense the hours shrinking and tightening around me.

You know, I hate the way Google Reader keeps refreshing itself, and the way it aggressively sucks at the RSS feeds of all the sites I’m subscribed to. I can “mark all as read” as often as I want, but new updates are always coming in; feeds are always flashing yellow to draw my attention to more inane shit. I don’t need any more. I’m saturated as it is.

Cream

In the late summer of 1996, I was a sadistic murderer. That isn’t something I’m proud of, but it’s true. In my defense, I could say that I was just a kid, and that kids in general are mean and dumb, but that’s not much of a defense.

Basically, I’d just moved to Springfield and was still trying to adjust to my new school. It was your basic elementary school, but it differed from those I’d attended in the past in one important respect: the playground was enormous. I mean, it was huge. It’s probably impossible to overstate its size.

(Though, come to think of it, maybe that’s exactly what I’m doing, and maybe my foggy memories are little more than terribly unreliable distortions. But let’s just assume that isn’t the case.)

Up near the school itself were all the typical trappings of a playground that you’d expect. There was a jungle gym, there were swing sets, there were monkey bars, and there was a four square court.

But the playground had no boundaries. Not really. The L shape of the school building boxed it in somewhat, but if you wanted to, you could wander out beyond the playground proper into a field of waist-high (for me at age eight, anyway) clumps of grass.

You could wander. You could wander as far as you wanted. A year later, they would pour asphalt and build a circular track out there, but until then, you could wander.

My friends and I didn’t wander. We killed grasshoppers instead.

I don’t know where the idea came from. I think it was something they had already been doing before my arrival in town, though that doesn’t excuse the fact that I seem to have enthusiastically joined in. Memory can be strange: I remember what I did, but don’t remember why.

It was kind of a friendly competition at first: a race to see who could capture the most grasshoppers in some arbitrary period of time. Catching hoppers (as we called them) required skill. First, you needed a good eye, because you had to be able to spot your quarry from far-off. Then, you needed a certain lightness of foot; you needed to be able to get in close. Lastly, you needed an effective pounce.

The best way to catch the little guys was by the legs. If you grabbed a hopper’s legs, it was powerless. It could do little more than twitch furiously and fruitlessly in your grasp.

This is all bizarre to remember. The me of 2009 is squeamish enough that I shudder to think of a grasshopper within twenty feet of me, let alone one in my hands. How could I have stomached that? What infernal engine drove me to do this stuff?

The friendly competition gave way to murder when Francis (not his real name) mentioned that he knew for a fact that instead of blood, grasshoppers actually bled Tabasco sauce, and that this was in fact where Tabasco sauce came from.

When some of us expressed profound doubt as to the veracity of this claim, Francis said he’d prove it. He killed one of his hoppers with a rock; as it died, hemolymph came oozing out. We were, of course, too young to know what “hemolymph” was, so yeah, I guess we thought it was Tabasco sauce.

We didn’t smash the hell out of any other grasshoppers, but we put some in jars. We swung others around and threw them out into the distance. We were a group of third graders who did a lot of sickening, sadistic shit, and I still don’t really know why. I didn’t play a huge part in what we were doing, yet it’d be disingenuous to claim that I was an innocent bystander. Even now, I still feel like I have hemolymph on my hands.

As kids, we had a pretty warped understanding of the way the world worked. What were grasshoppers to us? What was anything to us?

One recess, a friend of mine named David (not his real name) told us a dirty joke. He said he heard it at a party that he’d gone to with his brother. We were all pretty impressed by this; his brother was a sixth-grader.

“Okay, a guy and a girl are in bed, and they’re having sex,” David said. As he spoke, he gesticulated to show us what he meant. To him, the concept of “sex” was apparently best represented by two hands randomly swirling around and rubbing up against each other for several seconds.

“But then they realize the guy’s parents are coming home, so they’re like, oh shit! So then the girl goes and hides in the closet, and the guy takes the condom and throws it out the window.”

At this point we stopped him to ask just what the hell a “condom” was. His answer was vague and unsatisfying. “It’s a yellow thing,” he said.

“Anyway, so the parents come home and everything’s cool but the guy looks out the window and sees a little boy out by the driveway playing with the condom.”

“So he wants it back. He goes out there and he tells the kid, hey, kid, I’ll give you a dollar for that thing. And the kid says no. So he says, okay, ten dollars. And the kid says no. So he says, okay, a hundred dollars. And the kid says yes. So he gives the kid a hundred dollars and he gets the condom back and he throws it away.”

“Then the kid comes home to his mom and he’s like, ‘mommy, mommy, guess what? I sold a Twinkie to this guy for a hundred dollars! But he got gypped ’cause I already sucked out all the cream filling!’”

When the joke was over, nobody laughed. We all spent about ten minutes going back over segments of David’s tale and asking various questions. The main problem was that nobody really knew what “gypped” meant. The other main problem was that nobody (including David, it turned out) really understood why the joke was funny. Twelve years later, I still don’t understand.

Everything

I have a huge backlog of books and games I’ve bought but have never actually gotten around to reading or playing. I have a bunch of movies and albums I’ve downloaded but haven’t yet seen or heard.

And all this pop culture bullshit has canceled itself out as it’s accumulated. I’ve hit a point where I can’t really be bothered to engage with any of this gunk. It complicates my life and it weighs me down.

And yet I can’t bring myself to throw away or delete any of this stuff, so it just keeps on building, and the problem gets worse.

If I try to chip away at this mountain of junk I’ve burdened myself with, I don’t get very far before my attention wanes. I get bored and want to do something else.

You know, I’ve read the first ten or twenty pages of a staggeringly huge number of books. The number of books I’ve actually read in their entirety, though, is a hilariously tiny fraction of that.

I leave so much shit half-finished that I can’t remember what I need to go back to and what I don’t. Everything runs together into a gray, formless mass.

Something

Inside my brain it’s wall-to-wall HDTVs, and I can’t turn a single one of them off. I can’t even function, because noisy, malformed semi-thoughts are on every channel. It would take more energy than I’ve got to slice through the confusion and the clutter.

The Internet doesn’t help matters, of course, and neither does my old room here at home. There’s so much shit here that reminds me of and sucks me back into the past.

This is where I am right now: trapped in a hazy, meaningless present between a jumbled past and the black hole that is my future.

When I get a break from school, I never actually do a goddamn thing. I just fuck around online, listless and pathetic.

Maybe this time it’ll be different. I mean, that’s what I want, but . . . these fucking TVs, man. If I can’t turn them off, why can’t I turn the volume down, at least? It wouldn’t be much, but it’d be something.

Little

I lived in Springfield from mid-1996 right up until I graduated from high school in mid-2005. That’s nine years, and nine years is a long time, and yet I don’t feel much of a connection with the place. Every time I get to take a breather from med fucking school and come home, I’m struck anew by how alien this city seems.

The streets here are wider than the ones in Kansas City, and they run straight rather than crooked: the zoning is sparse and relentlessly logical. Stores and restaurants tend to be freestanding islands unto themselves; you don’t see Kansas City’s makeshift urban strip-malls, and you don’t have to worry about parallel parking. It’s stereotypical white suburbia.

I remember when I first moved here. My parents went house-shopping with a real-estate agent, and they took me with them. There were a lot of houses. One had a swimming pool, and another essentially had a forest for a backyard. My parents settled on one that had neither of these things; that was probably the right decision.

It’s the dumb little things about this house that throw me the most when I come home. The doorknobs here aren’t the same height as the ones in my apartment. The faucets work differently. Things like that.

Alignment

It’s raining so hard that the atmosphere outside looks more liquid than air. My street has turned into a river.

My car’s parked next to the curb, and it looks cleaner now than it ever has. Looks like I should be able to put off getting it washed for another six months.

The rain’s white noise is weirdly soothing. I feel like I should be taping this shit so I can play it back whenever I have trouble falling sleep.

My mind’s usually filled with frazzled, fragmentary thoughts. They’re almost like iron filings. The white noise is almost like a magnet. Slide the noise in, and the thoughts snap into alignment.

Vague

I just bought a Power Glove, because . . . I don’t know. Because I’m a fucking nerd.

I’m wearing it now, and it’s really making it hard to type. The glove is a cramped, awkward fit; this is because I’m not a kid anymore.

They don’t call this thing the Power Glove for nothing. This thing can see right through me. The fabric and rubber that pinch at my skin are its way of asking me who the hell I think I’m kidding.

The glove knows I didn’t just buy it because I’m a nerd. It can see the underlying reason, the one that’s altogether more absurd and pathetic. It can see that I’m trying vainly to recapture some vague nebulous childhood shit that was never really there in the first place and that’s pretty much unattainable now. It thinks this is a dumb thing to do. Hey, fair enough; I think so too.

Kill

Since I have a fucking final tomorrow, I’m in the fucking library. I’m on the designated fucking “quiet floor.”

Two fucking human-shaped hunks of shit about ten fucking feet away from me are happily carrying on an animated fucking conversation. They’re just fucking chatting away, like the oblivious motherfuckers that they are.

No, these dudes are not fucking whispering.

Now

Can’t put words together right now.